Is anybody scolded you? - 1

How do you react if anybody scolds or criticizes you? Well the reaction will depends on many factors like, who scolded you, why they scolded,  what  was your mental status at that time etc.
 
We frequently see some people becoming very disappointed and start crying when somebody criticizes or scolds them or they become angry and fight with that person.
 

Why should we do this?

If anybody criticizes or scolds us, there can be few reasons for that. One we have  really done wrong thing, two we did right thing but that person is thinking that to be wrong, three we did right thing and though knowing this that person is criticizing us with the intension to hurt us.

In the first situation we have done wrong, so we have to correct ourselves. If  our act did any damage to him physically or mentally we have to apologize him and if possible have to correct that mistake if not possible at least it should be avoided next time.

In the second situation we did right thing but the person is thinking it to be wrong. Here we can explain him what we did and why we did. If he understands good if not leave the topic, don’t argue. Because by arguing the opinions will not change normally , it can lead to unnecessary time wasting discussion and  quarrel further.

In the third situation we have not done anything wrong and the person knows it but still he is trying to criticize or scold us to hurt us. Here you just leave it, don’t bother about his words. Remember his nature and be careful in future.

These are things we can do. Unnecessarily bothering about the comments or scolding of others is waste of time. There is a good story related to this.